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I think that body modification is
practiced for both the self and social public reasons. Really,
anything you do to change or at to the outside of your body
is for someone else to see and interpret in a way that they
have a better understanding of you. Or rather what you choose
to show them. With tattoos they show a story or an aspect of
the wearer, and if the person were to be inside all the time,
they might be less likely to do body modification. Although
this is not always true, or one might beg to differ, I think
it is an underlying possibly unconscious reason.
--T Elio
I love my naval ring. I also had my
tongue pierced, and I have a small tattoo on my left ankle.
I had all three things done because I wanted them done. I know
plenty of people with all three done who love them just as much
as I do. No matter what anyone says, if you get a piercing or
tattoo, it is because you wanted it done. No one is going
to force you to do anything you do not want to do. I think that
with all the problems in our world today, piercings and tattoos
are a small issue.
--Whitney
I
think this whole issue (the idea of people doing things to "fit
in") raises an important question about the relationship
of one's outward, "social" presentation of oneself
and one's experience as an individual. True, many teenagers
and adults practice body modification in order to "belong"
to a particular social group, but how is this fundamentally
different from wearing, say, a business suit? The fact is, participation
in a group enables one to experience things one might not have
been able to otherwise (I'd be hard pressed to get a job on
Wall St. with my aqua tongue ring in...), and these experiences
have a direct effect on our personal and subjective experience.
I suppose you can say there is some existential, "spiritual"
aspect to body modification, but most people do it in order
to construct a certain identity, both for society and for themselves
-- posing a dichotomy between public and private reasons for
body modification begs the question that this distinction exists
in the first place.
--Nick
I
got my ears pierced at age 9, cos "everyone else has them
piereced." I once piered my lip just to rebel. But that
was when I was younger! I
have since had my lip pierced again because I liked the look
if it, the same with my navel, but I dunno my navel piercing
made me feel special, kind of sexy if you like!!! I would love
a new piercing but I cannot think of the nothing original!!!
I would like the "pit" of my neck pierced because
it is not too common - I do not like to be a sheep (not all
the time).
--LittleRedHenUK
I
like having people look at my tattoo and piercings, and anyone
who feels like it is very welcome to have a chat with me about
body mods. However, any procedure that involves holes or permanent
discolouration of the skin should be seriously considered and
maturely evaluated, just as you would a cosmetic surgical procedures.
It may be fashionable to have really pale skin, but would u
go and have the top layers of your skin bleached? No. So then
why decide to have your skin a coloured pattern just coz it's
fashionable?
You can probably tell I'm a staunch supporter of the 'personal
reasons are best' camp. I think u'll agree I have a point though,
no matter what reasons you may have fro being inked.
--Gemma,
England
There
is no doubt that in this fad conscience society where people,
especially the youth, determine their desired look by the latest
media marketing ploy that many people are modifying their bodies
to fit in; to be "cool." I'm sure that the tattoo
and piercing business was loving life when Dennis Rodman was
in the lime-light. However, body art, particularly tattooes,
are not a fad for those of us who truely use them - dare I say,
need them - for personal reasons. We are part of a modern tribalism
whose roots go back thousands of years. So for those do believe
tattoes are just a fad, kep believing it; it just the longest
running fad in history. Most of us who really believe in our
tats could care lees what the critics think anyway.
--aerochunck
Speaking
for myself, I got tattoos because I wanted the public to view
me differently. Is that a public reason or personal reason?
It is my opinion that a lot of the tattooing and body piercing
done today is for the shock value it can create with the public.
What the young person should realize is that studs and earrings
etc. can be removed when the fad wears off but tattooing is
forever, or at the very least very, very expensive to remove.
--cvetz
Whether
we modify to conform and belong or to make a statement, doesn't
this modification ultimately result from inner motives that
can be so personal that we may not consciously be aware of them?
When we "dress up" for a special night out with friends
do we know that we plan on getting accepted, fulfill our expectation
to be rejected or simply to feed our ego by being noticed? Whether
we consider the motive or not, we choose our public face.
--Cat
Speaking
only for myself, body modification is done purely for personal
reasons. Like a previous visitor, I used to cut myself when
angry at others. I was part of the punk subculture for many
years, but didn't consider getting a tattoo until I was in my
late twenties; during a period in my life when I felt I was
losing control, it seemed like a commitment to myself. I also
wanted to make myself 'different', to alienate myself from others,
and this seemed the most permanent way. I feel it's really important
to have a relationship with your artist, and allow him or her
to develop artwork based on your specifications. I am now very
comfortable with my body, and believe I can thank my body art
for a lot of that maturity.
--Robin
from the Near North, two large tattooes and eight piercings.
I
feel that all humans have a need/desire to express their individuality.
I feel that piercings, tattoos, etc, are all a form of individual
taste and expression. People of all nations, have lent themselves,
at one time or another to fads. I do think that some of the
piercings and tattoos we see now, are trends for some. For others
I feel that difference is a way of life. Modification of our
looks is widely accepted. We cut our hair, we color it, we spend
millions of dollars each year, to modify our looks in one way
or another. Bottomline, I feel to each his own. I think that
difference in people makes our world go round. Frankly, I'm
a people watcher, I love walking along Telegraph avenue, in
Berkeley Ca, near the university campus, and watch the people
browsing the many street vendor booths; talk about an array
of people who've modified their bodies, their hair, it's a beautiful
sight to behold. I have a few piercings of my own; four piercings
in each ear, one nose piercing; modest to some degree. I'm a
51 year old woman, risiding in the S.F. Bay Area...
--Meeoow1930
Body
Modification can take both forms, but is in my view a self ritualistic
form of acceptance or belonging on a personal level of wanting
a cultural or subcultural identity of who we are or want to
be. Publically, to display that desire or truth to others to
establish who we are as a form of non-verbal communication of
that truth or wish even if verbal communication may dictate
a portrayal of self as a truth or lie in order to establish
some form of acceptance within our so called normal majority
society!
--PAGELIO
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